One thing I have noticed is, once a woman has children.. she sort of puts her Husband on the back burners. I myself am guilty of this one and just recently decided to make time for my Husband.. After all he deserves it!
Here are some things we have recently been doing together!
Play a card game together. My Husband and I love playing Phase 10 as well Uno
Once the kids go to sleep have a Movie Marathon.. Choose a theme and stick to those movies all week. We are working on Marvel Movies.
Go watch your City's Baseball Team Play. The weekends games usually end with fireworks :]
Be kids again.. Go to the park alone and swing together.
Take showers together. Have some playful fun in there together, or help one another wash up.
Help one another workout. It can be great motivation having your man around to "show off" how many crunches you can do lol.
Cook dinners together... This could possibly be a door way to him making you dinners once in awhile. ;)
Go to a store that interests both Your Husband and Yourself.. Just recently we went to Bass Pro Shop together without kids and were able to actually enjoy what they had.
Since it's Summer now, While the kids are napping swim together.
Head to the book store together and read books together.. Maybe glance at the Karma Sutra books... lol.
Instead of rushing through the Drive Through at your favorite coffee shop. Go in have a Mocha or Latte together and actually be able to enjoy your drink as well as your Husband.
Make a fantasy box.... Your Husband and Yourself each write down 10 fantasy's to play out. My Husband will kill me to know I am sharing this one lol, but it is fun to see what one another write down.
Have you ever seen the new show on Lifetime 7 Days of Sex.. Give that a try! You'll be surprised how much it really works!
Go "Zooing" it together. Without the chaos of your little ones running around.. You guys will be able to enjoy the animals more and read the fun facts about them.
Have a bon fire together on a cold summer night.. Make marshmallows or just cuddle and keep each other warm.
Take the time to write one another love notes. Or leave little messages for one another laying in around for your loved one to find.
Re-create a first date.. You can go all out and pretend it's the first time you two are meeting or just keep it simple and have your first date all over again.
Stay the night a Romantic Hotel near by. Light some candles and embrace each other.
Play footsie together under the table, while eating dinner.
Kiss one another out in public, even if you have the kids with you! Show others how in love you are!
Switch things up, instead of going to the same restaurant search new places to go and give it a try!
Play Xbox or Ps3 together. If you have Kinect or even Wii some of the games are good way for yall to practice team work. See if you can work well together!!
Paint a room together. We just painted our boys room, as well as ours.. and I didn't know how bonding painting can be!! Waste a little paint and have a paint fight together (not over board just a little bit on the nose or a brush of paint on their legs.)
Go see a movie together.. I know this is cliche!
Lay out and watch the stars together!
Learn new drink recipes and make them together!!
Pretend your in High school again. Every time you stop at red light kiss one another!
Share your passions and dreams with one another!!
Turn some Music on and Dance together.
Take some pictures of yourself that will attract your Husbands eyes! It doesn't have to be a sexual one.. just throw on one of his button downs and socks!
Make it a priority to kiss one another before bed and tell one another "I love you."
Regardless if you Have kids or not!! Spending time with one another and making each other feel wanted is a big deal.
YOUR NEVER TOO BUSY TO MAKE TIME FOR YOUR HUSBAND!
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